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The curious misdiagnosis of PCOS & what is PMOS

NONORI Editors Jun 18, 2026 3 min read
The curious misdiagnosis of PCOS & what is PMOS

Something I keep getting angry about: why are we not told?

I'm talking about PCOS (I still struggle to say PMOS and it's just not as familiar to people yet!) A teenage girl gets diagnosed and she's just told "it's a lifestyle issue, lose some weight, here's a birth control pill, see you next year." That's it. One in eight women deal with a condition with metabolic, skin, fertility, and mental health effects that stack up over decades, and the support and interventions they get are…birth control pills.

I'm very pro birth control. The pill is one of the most important things medicine has ever done for women. But handing it to a 16 year old without explaining to her that it's just temporarily masking her symptoms rather than treating the insulin resistance underneath them, and without offering anything else, isn't treatment.

Here's a MASSIVE LIST OF THINGS I've learned via trial and error. None of this is medical advice ofc, but if you see something that might help YOU specifically, please ask your doctor about it:

  • Metformin: an insulin sensitizer that targets the insulin resistance. Usually withheld until you're "trying to conceive"
  • Inositol: Decent evidence for ovulation and insulin sensitivity, often with fewer side effects than metformin.

  • Berberine: works on the same pathway as metformin, with studies showing comparable effects on insulin resistance and lipids.

  • NAC (N-acetylcysteine): data supporting better ovulation and insulin sensitivity.

  • GLP-1s: both for weight loss and inflammation management!

  • Oral glucose tolerance test: not just a fasting glucose. A lot of us have normal fasting numbers and a terrible post-prandial response.

  • Continuous glucose monitor: even if you're not diabetic, to see how your body actually handles specific foods

  • Sleep apnea screening: far more common in PCOS, worsens insulin resistance

  • Spironolactone: an anti-androgen for hirsutism, acne, and hair loss. Treated as a last resort at twenty-eight when can be started YEARS before

  • Isotretinoin: for persistent hormonal acne, usually only given after years of antibiotics that don't help!

  • Eflornithine: topical cream that slows facial hair growth. Around since the early 2000s!!!

  • Topical clascoterone: a topical anti-androgen for acne that works locally without the systemic effects, GREAT for teens.

  • Topical minoxidil: used as a prophylactic, before the hairline visibly thins, rather than after the loss is obvious.

  • Finasteride or dutasteride: used off-label for female hair loss. Very effective!

  • Ketoconazole: mild anti-androgen effect at the scalp.

  • Azelaic acid: anti-androgenic and anti-inflammatory, good for the acne, hyperpigmentation and melasma.

  • Drospirenone-containing OCPs: if you're going get on the pill, pick one with real anti-androgenic support!

  • Early fertility conversations: talk about ovarian reserve and planning in your mid-twenties

  • Endometrial protection: long-term unopposed estrogen raises endometrial cancer risk. Nobody explains this to a teenager who hasn't bled in eight months!!!

  • Egg freezing

  • Strength training: resistance improves insulin sensitivity more than "just be more active" or endless cardio.

  • Protein-forward eating instead of the calorie-restriction that gets prescribed to PCOS women

  • Mental health screening: since depression and anxiety run two to three times higher in PCOS and deserve treatment

  • Spearmint tea: twice a day, small but meaningful anti-androgenic effect.

None of this is obscure. It all exists, and most of it has existed for years. The decision to keep it from teenagers and twenty-somethings in favour of just doing SYMPTOM management is not an accidental oversight. It is the system working exactly the way it has always worked: tell her it's her lifestyle, tell her it's her weight, tell her it's just how it is, hand her a pill, and send her home before she can ask for anything more.

I had to find this list in my thirties, trawling through Reddit, asking friends, going through dead websites, randomly reading books on apothecary and realising what's on the page might apply to me. I should have not NEEDED to do that. I should have had these options at twenty.

So I'm writing it all down here, every last item, so that the next girl who gets the "lose some weight and take this pill" speech has something to walk back into that office with.

You are allowed to ask for more. Somebody just made very sure you didn't know that.

By Harnidh Kaur

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